Rope Safety Basics

Essential Safety Gear for Shibari, Kinbaku, and Rope Play - The Primal Rope Blog

Welcome back to the Primal Rope Blog, where today we delve into a critical aspect of rope play, whether you're practicing Shibari, Kinbaku, or any other form of rope bondage: safety gear. Safety should always be your top priority, regardless of the style or technique you're exploring. Here's a rundown of the essentials you'll need to ensure your sessions are both enjoyable and secure.

1. Safety Shears

First and foremost, always have a pair of safety shears or EMT shears within arm's reach. These are designed to cut through rope swiftly in emergencies without risk of injury. Unlike regular scissors, they have a blunt tip, making them safer if you need to cut rope close to the skin. Brands like Shibari Supply and Twisted Syn emphasize the importance of these shears, noting their disposability after use due to their sharpness and function.

2. Rope Cutters

While safety shears are standard, some prefer rope cutters for their precision and ease of use in less urgent situations. These can include rescue knives or marlin spikes for untying knots quickly.

• Marlin Spike: A marlin spike is a pointed metal or wooden tool traditionally used in maritime settings to untie knots, splice ropes, or separate strands of rope. In Shibari, Kinbaku, and rope play, a marlin spike can be invaluable for loosening tight knots without cutting the rope, preserving the integrity of your gear. It's particularly useful when you want to maintain the rope's condition for future use or when the knot is too tight to undo manually.

Shibari Supply offers a range of these tools designed specifically for rope play safety.

3. Comfort and Protection

• Padding or Cushions: For longer sessions or suspension, padding or cushions can protect against rope burn and make the experience more comfortable. This isn't just about physical comfort but also about extending the play time safely.

4. Emergency Communication Tools

While not a physical gear, having a clear method for emergency communication is vital:

• Safe Words or Signals: Establish clear, non-verbal signals or safe words that can be used immediately if anything feels wrong. This is especially important in scenarios where verbal communication might be restricted.

5. Aftercare Supplies

Aftercare isn't gear per se, but having the right supplies can help manage any physical or emotional aftermath:

• First Aid Kit: Small injuries can occur, so having a basic first aid kit for cuts, burns, or bruises is wise.

• Hydration and Nutrition: Water and perhaps some snacks for rehydration and energy replenishment post-session.

6. Education and Knowledge

Perhaps the most critical "gear" of all:

• Safety Courses and Workshops: Continuous learning through classes like those offered by Rope Connections or through community gatherings can keep you updated on the latest safety practices and techniques. This is crucial for both Shibari and Kinbaku, as each has its nuances in terms of safety and application.

• Books and Online Resources: Educate yourself on nerve injuries, circulation issues, and other risks through resources like "Shibari: A Comprehensive Guide to Safe and Intimate Rope Play" or specific Kinbaku literature.

7. Emergency Contact Information

• Contact Details: Have emergency contact numbers readily available, including local emergency services (911 in the US) and perhaps a trusted friend or family member. It's also good practice to have a pre-written note with session details, your location, and emergency contacts in case you're unable to communicate.

• Medical Information: If anyone involved has specific medical conditions or allergies, keep this information accessible for emergency services or medical personnel.

Safety gear in Shibari, Kinbaku, and rope play isn't just an option; it's a necessity. By ensuring you have the right tools at your disposal, you're not only protecting yourself and your partner but also enhancing your ability to explore these art forms more deeply. Remember, ropes can be replaced, but the well-being of individuals involved in the play cannot.

Stay safe, keep learning, and enjoy the journey into the beautiful world of rope.